In the last post, I wrote about Forever Goals, which are outcomes I will always want. It’s something I can approach or maintain, not achieve. They are not SMART goals (i.e. Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time-Bound). For example, a SMART goal is phrased like this: “losing 5 pounds by the end of the year by doing 4 hours of cardio per week and tracking calories.” A Forever Goal is more like “be fit.” A Forever Goal could have a logo. It should make a good tattoo.
I think a SMART goal is more likely to succeed, especially in the short-term. But I fail a lot of personal SMART goals. For some of my aspirations, it hasn’t caused me to give up. I think it’s because I know I don’t really care about the SMART version of the goal. I care about the Forever version. If done right, a Forever Goal can succeed … forever.
Let’s compare the two.
In a SMART goal, the Relevancy is how much you want the goal. Relevancy is baked into the idea of a Forever Goals, so no difference there. Forever goals are also Measurable in the sense that there are measures that I want to increase or maintain, like my Personal Record (PR) lift or mile time. The difference is that the goal is the direction, not necessarily a number. A number can be achieved, but a direction is forever.
The similarities end there because Forever Goals aren’t Time-bound or Achievable and not particularly Specific. If you stop there, this is a good enough reason for them to fail. You could certainly support a Forever Goal with milestones that are SMART, which I have done. But now I prefer designing an infinite game instead.
The issue with SMART milestones is that failing them is de-motivating. If I do the cardio and track my calories, but don’t lose 5 pounds, I might be discouraged. This is true even if you become more fit. Personally, I fail almost all of my fitness milestones. But, I do still work out regularly. I do generally eat healthy. The measures of my fitness are mostly trending positive. I think the reason is that I have found a way to make doing the right things fun. Working out, cooking, and even grocery shopping are games to me.
I have also found programming to be incredibly fun and do it for enjoyment. I never made any kind of SMART milestone to get better at programming, but have no problem doing the work that makes me better at it.
SMART-like goals were imposed on me by employers, so I guess they were in the mix. If the only reason to program was to meet the goals of my employers, I think I would have given up a while ago (or not have been as successful or happy).
This is on my mind as I struggle to figure out a way to make learning Spanish more fun. I do the work (mostly), but it’s subject to wild swings in motivation. I have been relying on habits and discipline to make progress, which I’ll discuss next.